Endure

Endure............is to keep going when you just don't feel like it
Endure.......having something last
Endure..........staying with it no matter what
Endure.........putting up with
Endure...cherishing it
Endure.........FOREVER

When you think of the word......it can bring mixed feelings.........you want your love to endure....but you really don't want to endure labor pains. So the word can bring good feelings but also negative feelings. What things do I want to endure....God,love, family friends, peace....I want to endure patients, giving heart....I want to endure all good things.

I don't want to endure...on going ex issues. I don't want to endure my cranky ass attitude. I don't want to endure this long financial mud pit that I seem not able to get out of. I don't want to endure feeling overwhelmed. I don't want to endure these negative feelings.

I know the little snap shots of life's in motion I wish would endure. I would love to endure my kid's being on their best behavior..........I would love to endure that high feeling I get when I am singing at church...I want to endure the giggles i get with friends when we just let the moment hit us ............I want to endure again someday the feeling of being in love. ......and I of course with love ...........I want to endure.........the big O.............okay I know that is asking way to much ....but hey we can always hope ........right? We just need to learn and know what is important to endure and what we need to let go....and not endure no more. So since I have totally confused you with ENDURE............I leave the word for you to ponder .........but remember let it go.......

My life is a Pizza

My life feels like a Pizza. So many slices...to create a full robust meal. However, I feel like my slices are just not fitting together right. If you go slice by slice it's good.....meaning I am nibbling at each one, but don't have the full slice put to rest. So a nibble here a nibble there....and just not feeling the complete picture. I look forward to next week.....but also dread it at the same time. I feel like it should give closure but also know that there is always a chance that it is just one more step to another long court battle. Can we just all get along? I've just gotten to the point I hate confutation. Really hate it and sometimes I need to stand up for myself. ......so I take a stand now and say.....enough blog for today....I need my sleep.

Faith......in my daily life and for my life

We all have heard old wise tales or bible scriptures and know what they mean....but when the real light comes on WOW....how it really hits home. So let me back track here for a moment. The beginning of my weekend started off on a sour note. Kids climbing walls and screaming in awful high pitch tones.....car breaks down on the side of the Highway.....then school function with LOUD out of control kids being kids. Then dealing with the ex....not a good way to start the weekend. Plus trying to tie up lose ends....meaning giving my notice after taking a leave of absence from work after 18 years, good pay and great benefits.....to take the final leap of my home business that is almost completely financially supporting itself and my family. It's scary and I wonder at times is this where God wants me to be. Then you have my marriage...or soon to be prior marriage. Big ugly custody battle that has really taken its toll on me....and still not sure how the results will be in the end. It's even harder when your ex is bipolar and believes that you are trying to take the kids away. I realize that when he is unstable I have to protect our kids from a man who doesn't realize that he is unstable. So I try very hard to have faith that God will tend to all my ordeals....my trials my tribulations. However out of common human nature I question it. God are you really there? I believe God will get me through it...but will he really? I have faith that God will make sure that we both get to be active parents involved in our children's lives...sometimes with conditions other times without. I have faith that some how I will get a reliable automobile even though I don't have the financial means to do so. I have faith that God will enable me to provide for my family financially. Okay here is the light come on wow thing........I have heard over and over again...the bible verse........"thou I walk through the valley of death.....I will fear evil"...........and I don't know if our Pastor put it in a new way from me to understand or if God bonked me on the head and woke me up to the words.......Here on earth is evil (our valley of death)...but if we trust in God and have faith that he has died for our sins....then we don't fear dying....because we know we will be going to heaven. So if we are trusting God with our life in heaven....then why can't we trust him with the simple things? The broken car....the home business......the ex.....and the ex's illness......If I can trust God with my life.....then I should not question my faith in his hand in my daily life. The light might be on for some.....but I can totally understand if isn't....look how long it took me to antiquate it to having faith in God..For me it reassures me in my religious belief that God has my life in his hands and I just need to trust that I just need to call on him....and not try to do it or understand it all on my own.

Cozy Creating bookmarkers

I think winter has struck......because I can feel it deep in my bones. If you have never felt the cold, deep in your bones, believe me when I say.....when you do, you will know it. Winter always brings a mix of emotions. The anticipation of warm crackling fires while sitting all cozy with a loved one snuggled under a big cozy blankee. The flannel PJ's and warm toasty socks, with a hot cup of joe. Oh now that is the life. Then at the same time you really dread the wet cold days that you never seem to warm up. The soggy clothes that you have to peel off. The wasted time to do your hair and makeup just to get ruined as soon as you head out the door. And the insane drivers on the road. For me the start of winter is the best. You get a day or so of rain (CA living) and then nice sunny day to make you appreciate the break of wet weather.

While I am enjoying my crackling fire all cozy warm in my flannel PJ's, I like to get creative and crank out some creative outlet.....or attempted again to get organized. I got in spurts on organization. So what is buzzing in my mind is Christmas keepsake project that my kids can make. I am thinking homemade magnetic bookmarks. Simple, easy and very personalized to the recipient. All I need is some cute background paper, some glue, a magnetic, a metal washer, and a few small pictures of the kids.......and to seal the deal......clear contact paper.

First step.......get your cute background paper and you want to cut a 1" strip the whole entire length of the paper. This will be the actual book maker and what you will embellish to personalize.

Second fold your strip in half. If paper pattern is one sided make sure the blank side is face to face. Then go wild. You can use stickers, glitter, draw or even cross stitch. What ever suits your fancy. Me I am going with the little cameo pictures of my kids. Oops almost forgot....you want to go wild on the pattern side which will be the side you will be the book mark side.

Once you have beat your chest of personalizing your marker you want to glue on the blank bottom side .....yes you guessed it......a metal washer on one side and a magnetic on the other side. After the glue is dried.........straighten your book mark strip straight out and cover the entire (front and back) with the clear contact paper. Trim off the excess contact paper. Fold your book marker in half on your original crease and Whoop there it is...your very own personalized book mark. I love these things. Great for cookbook markers, and magazines and your all time loved bed time story savers. Easy, priceless and simple......and the cost is so low to make so many as gifts. So get warm and toasty and creative.